We always think that men are so simple in bed, right? And that the only things they like are getting blow jobs, fantasizing about a threesome, and that they want sex all the time; but no, the reality is that men want sex to be good and exciting too. Men want “A lady in the street and a freak in the bed.” In other words, men want variation; they want their women to sometimes be wild, someone able to try something new and exciting.
Ladies, do not be afraid to be a freak in bed! It is a total plus to your relationship. Everything in life is a balance; if you carry yourself well outside the bedroom, if you are a classy lady who knows how to present yourself in public, why be afraid to be a sex bomb in bed? It is always necessary to be both–a part of everything. Applying that concept in your life will make you a winner. Be the classy lady and the naughty one, too.
Here are some tips to help you to know what men want in bed
Men love a woman who can express herself. You can do it the way you like: moaning, screaming, dirty talk, telling him when you like something. They want to know that you are enjoying it. Talking during sex stimulates a man more than you think. What they see, hear and feel has a psychological effect in their brains. Your words can make your man feel like a potent and virile macho, and as an added bonus, he will feel more attracted to a sexually uninhibited woman who can express herself freely.
Do something taboo
It’s the nature of the human psyche to have some erotic fantasy. We are the product of a society that limits our sexual roles, and sometimes that can lead us to be moralistic and hypocritical, even if we feel stimulated by our sexual desires.
In the minds of men and women there are always fantasies, and more especially in men. Among the most common of these are threesomes, anal sex, and orgies. But most of the time, men are afraid to suggest them because they do not want to offend the woman. So if you want to spice things up, talk to him about taboo fantasy and feel free to do it, if these desires don’t make you feel sinful or wrong.
It’s All About The Attitude
Men want to have sex with a woman who is present. That means a woman who feels enthusiasm to be there. A lot of women perform sex like it is an obligation, as a favor, or because they want something in return. Ladies, letting a man have sex with you doesn’t mean much for them, if you are not into it. He wants you to be enjoying it as much as he is.
Sometimes women are afraid to tell a man what they want in bed, because the man might feel that he is being criticized. But not everybody is the same. A lot of men want a little guidance to know how to please you. We always want to protect our ego, and pretend that we don’t like something, thinking what the other partner might think about us, our reputation or many other stupid things. So do not be afraid to let your preferences be known. If you don’t talk to him, how will he know what you like? Remember this: a woman who knows what she wants becomes more attractive for a man in bed, because he will get a lot gratification knowing that he is pleasing you. Both of you are going to be grateful.
Men want a woman who is willing to try new things and explore new sensations in sex. Never assume that giving a man your vagina is enough. Men have many erogenous zones that they want you to touch. For example, the perineum is a very sensitive zone in a man. Surprise him by touching or kissing that part, suck on his testicles, masturbate in front of your man, smell and taste him using oils and flavored lubricants.
Good Sex is a very important part of any relationship, and is more than just a simple genital act, so be open and able to communicate what you want and what you like to your partner. Doing the same things over and over again can make anything boring in our lives, so be willing to try news things. Expand your concept of sex and allow yourself to enjoy it without prejudice and fake moralism.